"Much of modern culture is built around the notion of disenchantment with one's current state. As marketers we count on this angst and insecurity to kick start the engine of daily commerce but what if we could be happy AND unhappy all at once, what would that be like?"
- Blurb for a short talk called "The lost art of being satisfied," which I won't be able to attend.
Disenchantment is a big motivator for action (and consumption), so it's interesting how modern society is shifting us in this way.
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7.26.2010
7.19.2010
Obesity is a growing threat to public health in all the advanced countries throughout the world.
- OECD spokesman Matthias Rumpf, as quoted by USA TODAY
This is a side-effect of the urbanized lifestyle that most of us have. Food is easily available, easy to store, and you don't have to exert much to get what you want. Physical exertion in urbanized environments tends to remind me of hamsters running in a wheel.
Not many are able to break out of what modern society is sucking us in to. I propose we all engage in something that constantly challenges our bodies. Don't neglect your physical condition. Your body is your connection to the natural world, which in urbanized environments, slips further and further away.
- OECD spokesman Matthias Rumpf, as quoted by USA TODAY
This is a side-effect of the urbanized lifestyle that most of us have. Food is easily available, easy to store, and you don't have to exert much to get what you want. Physical exertion in urbanized environments tends to remind me of hamsters running in a wheel.
Not many are able to break out of what modern society is sucking us in to. I propose we all engage in something that constantly challenges our bodies. Don't neglect your physical condition. Your body is your connection to the natural world, which in urbanized environments, slips further and further away.
7.12.2010
6.28.2010
The Success Delusion: Why It Can Be So Hard for Successful Leaders to Change
Any human, in fact, any animal will tend to repeat behavior that is followed by positive reinforcement. The more successful we become, the more positive reinforcement we get – and the more likely we are to experience the success delusion.
I behave this way. I am successful. Therefore, I must be successful because I behave this way. Wrong!
The higher we move up the organizational ladder, the more our employees let us know how wonderful we are! Our behavior is often followed by positive reinforcement, even when this behavior makes absolutely no sense. One night over dinner, I listened as a very wise military leader shared his learnings from years of experience with an eager, newly-minted General, “Recently, have you started to notice that when you tell jokes, everyone erupts into laughter - and that when you say something ‘wise’ everyone nods their heads in solemn agreement? The new General replied, “Why, yes, I have.” The older General laughed and continued, “Let me help you. You aren’t that funny, and you aren’t that smart! It’s only that star on your shoulder. Don’t ever let it go to your head.”
- Marshall Goldsmith
Any human, in fact, any animal will tend to repeat behavior that is followed by positive reinforcement. The more successful we become, the more positive reinforcement we get – and the more likely we are to experience the success delusion.
I behave this way. I am successful. Therefore, I must be successful because I behave this way. Wrong!
The higher we move up the organizational ladder, the more our employees let us know how wonderful we are! Our behavior is often followed by positive reinforcement, even when this behavior makes absolutely no sense. One night over dinner, I listened as a very wise military leader shared his learnings from years of experience with an eager, newly-minted General, “Recently, have you started to notice that when you tell jokes, everyone erupts into laughter - and that when you say something ‘wise’ everyone nods their heads in solemn agreement? The new General replied, “Why, yes, I have.” The older General laughed and continued, “Let me help you. You aren’t that funny, and you aren’t that smart! It’s only that star on your shoulder. Don’t ever let it go to your head.”
- Marshall Goldsmith
6.17.2010
"I know you're out there. I can feel you now. I know that you're afraid. You're afraid of us. You're afraid of change. I don't know the future. I didn't come here to tell you how this is going to end. I came here to tell you how it's going to begin. I'm going to hang up this phone, and then I'm going to show these people what you don't want them to see. I'm going to show them a world... without you. A world without rules and controls, without borders or boundaries; a world where anything is possible. Where we go from there is a choice I leave to you."
- Neo, into the phone at the end of the first Matrix movie, before he flies away.
- Neo, into the phone at the end of the first Matrix movie, before he flies away.